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Summer Boredom Busters-Meg Lowery

26 Thursday May 2011

Posted by Stefanie Van Aken (RSMLVTravel) in Fun

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Activities, Bored, kids, Meg Lowrey, summer, What to do

The Ice Cream Man has begun his rounds and my preschooler came home with her Graduation announcement today.  Summer is looming and I’ve got to admit I’m beginning to feel a little hot under the collar; but not because the thermometer hit 97° this afternoon.  I’m going to go out on a limb here and make the wild assumption that I’m not the only mom unraveling at the seams a mere three days into summer break. If I had a nickel for every time a sweaty faced, antsy little pumpkin whined “I’m BORED!!! There’s nothing to dooooooo!” I’d have enough dough to turn my house into a three ring circus for their enjoyment and fly myself to a remote beach and sip fruity rum drinks with cocktail umbrellas all summer.

Here’s the thing: In school, our sweet little loveys are exposed to a plethora of well orchestrated activities from a professionally trained teacher whose sole objective for the day is to provide fun learning opportunities to our children. God love ’em! The bad news: These kids seem to expect the same level of service and entertainment at home!

Let’s get real. Even though I wish I could conjure up my inner Mary Poppins and have tea parties on the ceiling all day long while the toys march themselves back into place it simply isn’t going to happen!  Even us SAHM’s have work to do! (As side note, I tried the SAHM title on for size, and I’ve gotta say I prefer the acronym BMFFFM or ‘Bust My Fanny For Free Mom’; it’s just a better fit.) In my house the laundry doesn’t wash, fold and put itself away. Dust bunnies don’t just hop off when I wiggle my nose and contrary to popular belief, dogs aren’t the super awesome vacuums that I heard they were.  Bottom line, there’s still work to be done each day and I want my kiddos to be engaged in something other than TV that will give me the time I need to knock out my list.  I’ve scoured the internet for fun summer activities and there are virtually zillions of Martha Stewart-esque games, crafts and fun family todos. But when I’m up to my elbows in soap suds, changing the diaper of a toddler in motion and simultaneously scheduling doctor’s appointments with an annoyed receptionist, it’s a little bit of a challenge to Paper Mache a duck.  What I need is a litany of ideas to throw at my kids that’ll bust the boredom right out of them, and to be honest, these brilliant ideas aren’t just swirling around in my head to be plucked and put into motion at a moments notice.  My typical response to the “What can I do?” question (which includes a dose of sarcasm and a little bit of ‘tude) is  “why don’t you play with one of your hundreds of toys or go clean that messy room?”  Ugh! Even I don’t want to follow those lame suggestions!

So last summer my kids and I created a list of fun activities that can be separated into two categories:

1)Things that can be done alone

2) Things that can be done with a sibling or friend.

I typed up the list and we cut up each idea, folded it and stuffed it into a mason jar (if you want to keep the two categories separate, print them on two different colors of paper). The key is, these are all things that can be done WITHOUT mom’s help! Making s ‘mores in the backyard fire pit while fun, does not have a place on this particular list! But before we dig in, there are a couple of rules to hash out:

1. Children may only pull 3 ideas from the Fun Jar before having to decide on something, even if it’s not one of the three ideas chosen. I quickly learned that there are some kids (I won’t mention any names Emerson Lou Lowery) who  will pull idea after idea and say ‘I don’t want to do that,’ ‘I did that yesterday,’ ‘That’s not even fun’… You’ve gotta nip those in the bud!

2. If your child chooses not to use the Boredom Busters  or just can’t seem to decide on one of their three options and whine that there is nothing to do, Mom (or Dad) will promptly find a chore to help occupy their time. Fortunately there is never a shortage of chores to do, and I’ve also got a great list of those on hand!

3. You can ALWAYS add ideas to the Fun Jar!  That can be a great Boredom Buster in itself!

Without further ado, here is the list of Boredom Busters created with my own 4 kids in mind who range from 2-12 years old. You may need to edit this list to fit your own kids ages and/or interests but this should offer a good jumping off point:

Things To Do With A Friend

Things To Do Alone

 

This post was submitted by Meg Lowery.

 

Meg Lowery is a WMFFFM (Work My Fanny For Free Mom) of four lovely children and a part time Volunteer Director for a large endurance sports corporation. Meg is interested in almost everything, has time for almost nothing, but is blissfully happy in her almost perfect little world.  She currently resides in Henderson, NV by way of Colorado, and will always be a mountain girl at heart.

How to Pick a Summer Camp for Your Kids

18 Wednesday May 2011

Posted by Stefanie Van Aken (RSMLVTravel) in Fun

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day camps, Henderson International School, kids, summer camps

There is nothing like Spring Break to remind you that summer is around the corner…. And that you had better find something for your children to do for those long 10 weeks.

My 3 boys had 11 days off of school for Spring Break, and they were great for the first four days.  Plus, the weather was beautiful (My neighbor even heated her pool!),  so we were able to spend a lot of time outside.  Spring Break always sounds like a good idea, but in the back of my mind I knew what was coming, and all I kept thinking about was Summer Break.

We'll keep your kids busy over the summer!

By Day 5, my 2 older boys woke me up at 6:30 am to ask if they could play Wii.  (Mind you, these are the same boys I have to drag out of bed at 7:15 on school days to get ready on time!)  We have a strict “Wii on Weekends Only” policy during the regular school week, but these super observant (only when they want to be) boys seem to know that I will bend the rules for these incredibly long vacation days.

As I argue with them with one eye open and mostly asleep, we negotiate Wii after breakfast; however, I find myself in the kitchen just 10 minutes later, making bowls of cereal that are only half eaten so they can make their 7:00am “Game Time” with Mario and Luigi on the virtual baseball field.

So, I begin to ask the question again……What are we going to do this summer?  Having lived in Henderson now for 7 years, I have found that the options for summer entertainment is limited, (especially for active, not-yet-sport specific boys.)  There are a few pre-school camp programs, (Shout out to Camp Midbar Kodesh!) which were great for my pre-schooler who did not yet swim and took a long afternoon nap.   Those days are long gone!  I find myself in a panic thinking of  something for the boys to do during  the 7 hours they are used to being at school, happily occupied with academics, arts, sports, friends, and trustworthy supervision that is not me.    We have tried summer school programs, (He said it was boring. Plus they were always themed – which meant if my son didn’t like dinosaurs-he didn’t want to go that week.)  Gymnastics Camp (Even though he doesn’t like gymnastics, I convinced him his friends would be there so we tried it, only once – with a promise never to return.), Country Club Camps (Also not a bad option, however by the middle of July my son nearly melted on the tennis court at 10:00 am only to be followed up with a “cool” round of golf.  Although the swimming twice a day was nice,  cramming all ages of campers into an aerobics room to watch a Disney video does not a day camp make.

So here is my advice for parents who are looking for quality summer programs for their children.  Ask yourself the following questions and rank them in the order that is most important to your family.

  • What are your child’s interests and do you want them to experience this summer? Are you looking for something new or to continue with a loved extracurricular activity?

(Specialty Camps vs. General Camp Programs)

  • Do you want a flexible program with drop-in days or are you hoping for a traditional “camp” experience?
  • Who will be supervising your children? (Will it be Teachers, Coaches, College Students, or Teenagers?)
  • Will they be mostly indoors or out?  What are the facilities like?
  • Do you want your child to swim or not? What about swim lessons?
  • How about field trips?
  • Are you looking for an academic component or just some summer fun?
  • Do you want the siblings to be together or separated?
  • Do you want them to spend time with old friends or make new friends or both?
  • Do you need extended hours? Or maybe just a half day option?

If you are anything like me…..you want a little bit of everything!   And, if you do your research, you really can have it all.    Believe it or not, there are many programs for all different kinds of children and families once you start looking.  The truth is…you need to find the right fit for you and your child.  It might be a new “traditional” summer camp for a few weeks, or it might be just a handful of days at Gymnastics camp with some old friends.   UNLV and Henderson International School have specialty sports camps offered by the week and the Country Club camps are always a good bet for an outdoor sports enthusiast that can swim.

The Tutoring Club has 4 locations throughout the Valley.

And of course, you can always spread your money around and try a few weeks here and there.  If they love Hip Hop, then the Dance Zone might be a great place to start, sprinkle in some swim lessons at WaterWings, a class here or there at the Henderson Multi-Gen Center, and end your summer at the Tutoring Club to brush up on those academic skills.  Your kids will tell you what they liked best and what they want to do again.  You will form an opinion the minute you drop your child off in the morning and again when they get into your car at the end of a camp day (hopefully happily exhausted).

And by the end of the summer, if you have a dollar or two left over after you have paid for all these extra activities, spend some time as a family…….on a trip to San Diego, a weekend in Utah, or under a cabana at Green Valley Ranch (locals get a great discount during the week!).   Really anywhere you can all be together to make a fun summer memory.  Because if you ask your children, that is where they would truly choose to be any day of the summer.

This post was submitted by Lisa Bienstock.

Lisa with her youngest son

Lisa Bienstock is the Director of Summer Programs at the Henderson International School, and the Executive Director of Summit Ridge Day Camp.As a credentialed teacher in both Nevada and California, she has over 20 years of experience in teaching as well as over seeing, facilitating and owning summer day camps.  This year, she joins the Summit Ridge Day Camp at the Henderson International School.

To find out more about the Summit Ridge Day Camp at the Henderson International School, check out their page here.

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RockStar Yogis : yoga 4 kids

02 Thursday Sep 2010

Posted by Stefanie Van Aken (RSMLVTravel) in Archive It

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Fitness, kids, kids fitness, yoga

When life presents you with an opportunity to practice what you preach, do it! This summer I was offered the position as a Yoga specialist for Summit Ridge Day Camp. At first, I initially tried to give the job to fellow yoga teachers, thinking I was not good enough, qualified enough, or ready to jump into an opportunity like this. Truthfully, I didn’t really even consider the position for myself until the Director said, “Why don’t you just do it?”. Hmmmm- well, I had never thought about it. I came up with reasons as to why I couldn’t, then decided, what the heck, YES I CAN! And, let me tell you, it was one of the most exciting things to happen to me over the summer. (Besides turning 40 and escaping to Cuba for 4 days!)

rock star yogis yoga for kids las vegas

I started practicing yoga when I was 20 years old, while attending the University of San Diego. My roommate and I decided we wanted to learn more about this practice that was starting to build up steam as a main stream fitness option in the mid-90s, so we took a class offered through our university for 1 P.E. credit. The instructor’s name was Sunshine (not kidding), and we practiced yoga for the first time in a flourescent lit room in the fitness center, on linoleum tile, probably with a borrowed mat (which, ew, would never do today). I was hooked. Finding a mental and physical balance compelled me to achieve this goal that seemed so unattainable at the time. The more I did yoga, the more I loved it. I had a dance and cheerleading background growing up, so I was already quite flexible. No other fitness routine spoke to my body the way yoga did. My muscles craved the length and challenge of working my way into crazy positions. My mind begged for the stability discovering inner peace would bring. I suffered through the 24-Hour Fitness yoga classes when that was all I could find in Las Vegas after I moved back from San Diego. I remember learning about Sherry Goldstein and taking one of her classes in an office building somewhere off of Pecos. I didn’t care where I took class, as long as I could get to a good class, and find a great instructor. I joined gyms just because some of my favorite yoga instructors taught there.

breath body mind balance

Fast forward to 32, where I am working for a yoga based athletic wear company trying to make a name for themselves in the Las Vegas community. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. I loved every aspect about working for lululemon athletica, but what I gained the most from working in this environment was connecting with the fitness and health gurus in my own community. I learned so much more about the true practice of yoga- living it every day and taking it “off the mat”. Most of what I learned, I learned from my staff and the amazing yoga instructors we have right here in both Henderson and Las Vegas. I started putting these learnings into my every day life, and how I manage myself, my family and my priorities. When my own kids were old enough, I put them in kids’ yoga whenever I could find it. Oliver and Stella did yoga for years, but when the twins got to an age where I could put them in a class, I had a really hard time finding one. The practice of yoga is so important to me, that I wanted my kids to have it, too. Being offered and realizing that this may be an opportunity for me to share my love of yoga with not only my own children, but with the children in my community, was such a blessing for me.

RockStar Yogis yoga 4 kids

I love the energy it creates for me and my children. Yoga for kids is not just about the mental state of finding inner peace, relaxation, and calmness. All that is fantastic, of course, but did you know that it will also help with your child’s strength, flexibility and endurance to enhance the sports they participate in already? Or that kids who do yoga have a tendency to increase their attention span and focus, control their emotions better, and develop better listening skills? I love this article from Your Therapy Source that gives a basic outline of 10 Reasons Why Yoga is Beneficial for Children, if you want to read up on even more reasons to put your child in yoga.

peace love yoga

Working with all ages over the summer proved to me that our younger generation is craving the benefits yoga can provide them. It could be for one of the reasons listed in the article, or for all 10, every child is different. Which is one of the reasons why I am so passionate about teaching kids’ yoga. Yoga is an individual sport- it is all about YOU. There is no competition or comparison of who does yoga better, it is all about letting you do you that day, and every day forward. Kids are often thrown into a chaotic world of education, music lessons, dance, sports, French lessons, play dates, travel…and don’t forget to throw into the mix iPads, computers, video games, and other electronic devices that distract from natural stimulation. I know this because I am the same with my own children- constantly trying to help them stay ahead of the game, ahead of the curve, ahead of or even just to keep up with, their own peers. One hour of yoga as often as they can fit it in during the week can do wonders for a child’s confidence and ability to tap into their inner-selves, give themselves a moment to discover what is right for them, who they want to be and how they want to go about doing it. It truly is a beautiful gift to give yourself and/or your child.

RockStar Yogis yoga 4 kids

Fast forward again to Fall 2015, and I am now creating a program for kids who want and like to do yoga. RockStar Yogis is a program created by me, that yes, incorporates elements of my mainstay, RockStarMomLV. The RockStar Yogis philosophy uses yoga as a way to help children achieve personal balance through breath, mind and body. Practicing yoga is a wonderful way to introduce strength, flexibility and focus into your child’s everyday routine. Yoga is a form of exercise meant to develop inner calmness, set and achieve goals, practice mindfulness, and build self-confidence. These elements are achieved through the practice of breath, the art of meditation, and the challenge of Vinyasa style yoga poses and flows.  

RockStar Yogis Yoga 4 Kids

My classes are about sharing a practice with your children with the same vision I would want for my own kids to experience. Most RockStar Yogis classes are 50-minute sessions working around different themes. Popular classes have been Share Your Aloha, The Colors of My Energies, It’s All About the Breath and Balance It Out. I am also working on creating a meditation class for kids which will round out my goal of teaching kids how to balance body, breath and mind. Each class follows a similar curriculum: sharing circle to regroup from the day and ready our minds for practice, warm up and stretching, yoga flow, new poses, and savasana. Incorporated into each RockStar Yogi session is a demonstration of intention and self-thought through crafts, music, movement, and games.  Keeping yoga playful and fun, while maintaining structure and authenticity of the practice, helps keep children engaged in the ultimate goal- to teach children how to take their yoga “off the mat” and into the real world. With the amount of stress and expectations put on our children through education, societal norms, media and technology, a 50-minute yoga break can surprisingly be all they need to help keep a healthy perspective for their minds and bodies.  It is a practice of the whole body + mind.

“I promise they will feel the difference in their bodies, minds and souls and you will see the difference in your child. It’s a beautiful gift to give them. Imagine the potential of what and who they will grow to be with yoga in their lives at an early age.”

 ~ Stefanie Van Aken

Currently, the RockStar Yogis program is being offered as an after school enrichment program at Foothills Montessori School in Henderson.

Thank you for taking time out of your day to read my post. I hope to see you + your children on the mat!

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